Well I have started the countdown. It drives Tony a little crazy - but for me it is therapeutic. Since I have been doing all of thos stuff from a far, I haven't met witht he minister lady, I met the flower lady once, the cake people are a bit touch and go and I've only been to the ceremony site once. My friends keep asking me what can they do and yet there isn't really anything for anyone to do. All of the stuff stuff is primarily done and otherwise I would have to ship something to someone - and well that isn't really fair.
My dress I get to pick up this Friday and we just bought our rings this weekend so we have to get them reseized but they will be available soon. I still have to get some attendant gifts but that is pretty easy.